…Weddings…
Who would’ve thought that the most beautiful thing to happen to 2 individuals can be a f****** nightmare in the process!!!
Well, not so f***** bad, but really guys, whenever you plan your wedding in the future, it is advisable to either do it yourselves or totally leave it in the hands of your parents!
Well, lets move on to the next stage. Who would have known how much ‘RED-TAPE’ is involved in a wedding? The process, the courses, the choice of the dinner location, the day’s ceremony, the tea ceremony, the agreement between both families, the LIST of relatives and friends, and most frustrating one of all is the money!
Here now you have me, and I want everything to be great! Not only for me, but for my bride-to-be, families and friends. That is the hardest thing you know, but its something I wanna do cause it makes us feel good!
Attending numerous weddings all my life since I was a kid till adult now, I have been to a range of hotels to restaurants. And all this while I imagined a lavish setting, grand as it will be as if fantasy land had been created…But imagine when I say the BEST EVER wedding I attended was at the Overseas Restaurant @ Jalan Imbi!!! Cramp place, almost impossible to find parking, no grand feeling when one enters the restaurant. Then they serve the food, and begin the dinner etc etc. It turned out to be so great I can’t find one that has out done it at all, EVER so far! The food was FANTASTIC! The atmosphere was EXHILIRATING and it was a real family and friends get together enjoying the moment there and then!!!
So now, here I am, at the age of 25, planning my big day when I will be 26. Too early and young to settle down? Many have asked me, “Why so young? Enjoy your life before you commit yourself.” Yes, it is true, I do wanna enjoy my life, but how better to enjoy it with the ONE & ONES I love? It does not mean that once you settle down everything is gone. Bring her along for the gatherings, go along for HER gatherings etc. Breaking pre-conceptions right guys??? Hahaha!
Gone are the days when people settle down as early as in their 20’s. Now comes the era of getting hitched late in life. But that is what is happening. But we need not follow. I guess that’s me, born to be rebellious! Which I am actually…To a certain extent…
In life, Everything happens for a reason as I had recently mentioned to a friend. In some cases we might not know why it did, but somehow eventually we will.
So to those out there, regardless of the life you are in now, just live it to the fullest, and find happiness in everything you do!
